I know that I do not have to force anyone to take an interest in my hobbies and lifestyle and activities and health and wellbeing or occupation. If they want to know, they will inquire.
I will take note if they only want to tell me about themselves.
I will take note if their only interest in me is what they can get from me.
I know that once a relationship has fully ended that I need to accept that. There is now a break in our time streams and if we ever meet again we have to start at that point from scratch as if we never knew each other before. If we cannot do this, then there can be no new relationship. If it ended it should have ended and that old relationship is gone permanently.
I will take note when exes are simply lonely and feel like rekindling.
I will take note when former lovers after a great amount of time feel like they miss me and there has been no communication whatsoever.
I know that if someone wants to date me that a protocol and boundaries have to be set. Whether I am extremely physically or mentally or spiritually attracted to someone to ignore my own dating requirements and rituals that should be known to the other party if our intentions were good, I hope that I have picked a partner that will not take part in anything to do with me that I will regret later or be detrimental and vice versa. What is the point of a team if they do not lift each other to a higher standard? Anyone who would make me go against my own self-interest is not to be trusted ever.
I will take note of friends who are really just acquaintances that I party with who recommend we do things that have caused me trouble in the past.
I will take note of anyone that ever says to me, ” Awe, C’mon”.
I know that if I have what is essential to my survival and ways to express myself creatively and avenues to receive love from other directions besides erotically that I’m actually doing really really well in this life and that I should be grateful for that. Anyone who wants to come into that circle must be able to lift it in some way or they need to leave me alone, as I am doing just fine, good in some cases, on my own.
I will take note of people who say that what I am missing in my life is them for some reason.
I will take note of when I am being sold, what the product is, and what they assume that I lack that causes me to fit (in their minds) into their target demographic.

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