Don’t say you want friendship when you don’t. Don’t say you want to get to know me when that’s not really what you want. Don’t promise me anything you couldn’t possibly give. Don’t tell me things to try to trick me because it’s pointless. How you wanna be my man when you don’t know my name yet? Listen… If your primary objective is to have sex with me then say so. If it’s to have a friendly conversation and text often then say so. If it’s to have an explore the world around us together experience buddy then say so. If you don’t have a primary objective leave me alone. If you want to be humiliated and then left alone, admit it. If you want someone to play the fool say this too. If you’re simply bored and want to be entertained by someone then say so. A closed mouth don’t get fed. Saying so gives me the option to authentically participate or waste less of our time by opting out early. Rejection is better than regret. I will never stop saying this. We should, and can at times, get precisely what we ask for if we actually ask. Do you know your objective? Say so.
You need to know this upfront. Remember it about me. Because there will be no word mincing when it’s my turn to make my intentions for you like glass.


